Usman Umar Shocked By Bisexual 90 Day Fiancé Date

Usman Umar, “Sojaboy,” is back on 90 Day Fiancé: The Hunt for Love, and this time, it’s not his music career or a long-distance relationship causing a stir on social media. Instead, it is a it’s a very awkward first date with a woman who told him that she’s bisexual. 

The Preview Clip

In a new clip shared on Facebook, the TLC star was caught off-guard when his date casually told him she was bisexual. The official 90 Day Fiancé page teased the scene with the caption, “Usman finds out his date is bisexual… and his response? Well, you’ll just have to see for yourself 🤣 #HuntForLove is all-new Monday at 8/7c!”

Very quickly, he gave TLC fans lots of reasons to comment. In the video, Usman Umar seemed confused and asked her, “How do you expect me to make love to you?” Next, he cautiously added that he didn’t want to offend her. It seemed that the Nigerian equated bisexuality with anal sex, saying it meant she liked “sex anally.”

The woman looked baffled and explained that bisexuality just meant she was attracted to both men and women.

Fans React With Humor

Viewers immediately enjoyed the awkward moment, with amused comments rolling in. One fan joked, “Bi to him means both holes…”

Then another one wrote, “What happens when two dingbats have a conversation?” Here are a few more reactions:

• Usman, your question woulda made sense if you were asking another man,
• I’m beginning to think Usman is not as macho as he pretends to be.
• Usman is funny he needs his own show.
• As African our bro asked the right question.
• He said he don’t do that lol.
• So innocent makes it funny.
• I mean it’s understandable since it’s not common in his country soo I get how it was confusing to him at least he asked.

Sojaboy Keeps Fans Talking

Usman has a long history with 90 Day Fiancé viewers. His earlier storylines with exes like Baby Girl Lisa and Kimberly Menzies gained him a loyal following. However, he also found a lot of critics. We reported that he expanded his singing career his in other ways, even landing a soap opera role in Nigeria in 2024. Still, he’s best known for awkward love life moments.

In 2023, Kiera Elise briefly dated Usman and later told fans she split from him for personal reasons. And long before that, viewers questioned his cultural takes on relationships, including an adoption offer that raised ethical concerns. Plus, he talks about being able to marry multiple women in his culture, but he hasn’t managed to keep one. 

Now, in 2025, he’s still mixing romance with misunderstanding, keeping fans talking and laughing. He seems to be a rogue, but a very likable one. Do you agree? Shout out in the comments below, and come back here often for all your 90 Day Fiancé: The Hunt for Love spoilers, news and updates.